; WHAT IS LOVE?
Somehow 9 out of 10 ppl around me r having relationship woes. Sometimes we just ponder & wonder, "What is the deal with love?"
Many of times u found tt special one, a friend u simply adore & u proceed for a further step in hope to find something more out of it --- to be more than friends. But that's when the headache comes, coz with friends we r much more lenient, but when it comes to a relationship, it comes --- EXPECTATIONS. & with expectations, there comes hope... & also disappointment.
Love can be very simple & fun, but as humans, we do complicate things. We r always looking for better.... for better..... & for better...... But we simply forgot that we r imperfect ourselves & there is always someone better out there.
-We should consider this, when we want to let go-
"Y did we choose him/her at the first place? Did someone put a gun on our head then?".Sometimes we need to calm down & recall back, then one can detect the problems & come out with solutions. However, take note ppl change over time, experience & exposure, so keeping in par with ur partner is very important.
-We should consider this, when we want to start-
"What am I looking for? What do I deserve to have this guy/gal?".
Many times we r just too selfish, always thinking about ME, MYSELF & I. But so many of us forget to ask back ourselves, "What do I deserve to have this person in my life?". What makes u think u r more superior than ur partner & even if ur partner is more superior than u, tt does not mean u have less value worth. Everyone have their own values which should be cherish & treasure.
For those who have their heart broken...
Remember at least u know what is love, coz when u feel hurt, that means u have once love. Some ppl will never understand what tt means & feel, so be thankful u do.
For those who r in love....
Remember to treasure the relationship & constantly remind urself how lucky u r to have someone who is a stranger for u the past 10+, 20+ or 30+ years in ur life now, willing to get to know u, to share his/her life with u & to risk his/her comfort zone to spend the rest of his/her life with u.
For those who are single....
hope everyone find "the one" someday. Someone who makes us wake up every morning smiling coz we noe we r loved; someone who makes us smile in our sleep coz we noe we r important; someone who makes us feel belonging all the time; someone who makes us know how valuable our lives is becoz we need to survive, strike for success, take care of ourselves, so that we can take care of them. That's what is called unconditional love :D
